| Location | New Denham , Bucks |
| Age | 28 years |
| Cause of Death | Motorbike Accident |
| Date of Birth | 21/10/1966 |
| Date of Death | 15/12/1994 |
| Visitors | 183 since 28/08/2009 |
| Creator |
this memorial is for a truly special man. In his short time here he bought so much happiness to everyone who met him. He was not only a brilliant husband, an excellent caring father, a special son, a fun uncle, brother and brother-in-law he was also the best friend you could hope to meet. On the 31 may 1991 when his daughter was just 9 weeks old he was involved in a motorbike accident that left him in a coma that unfortunately he never came out of. He died three and a half years later. life moves on but things are never the same because we truly miss you every day.
I'm writing this from heaven where I dwell with God above. Where there's no more tears or sadness, there's just eternal love. Please do not be unhappy, just because I'm out of sight. Remember that I'm with you, every morning, noon and night. That day I had to leave you, when my life on earth was through, God picked me up and hugged me and he said "I welcome you. Its good to have you back again. You were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on."
Then God gave me a list of things He wished for me to do. And foremost on that list of mine, is to watch and care for you. And I will be beside you every day and week and year. And when you're sad, I'm standing there to wipe away the fear. And when you lie in bed at night the days' chores put to flight, God and I are closest to you in the middle of the night. When you think of my life on earth, because you're only human, it's bound to bring you tears. But do not be afraid to cry, it does relieve the pain. Remember, there would be no flowers unless there was some rain.
It's always God's philosophy and I'd like it for you too, that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you. If you can help someone who is in sorrow or in pain, then you can say to God at night, My day was not in vain. And now I am content that my life was worthwhile, knowing as I passed along the way, I made someone smile. So if you meet someone who is down and feeling low, just lend a hand to pick him up as on your way you go. When you are walking down the street and you've got me on your mind, I'm walking in your footsteps only a half a step behind. And when you feel that gentle breeze or the wind upon your face, that's me giving you a great big hug or just a soft embrace. And when it's time for you to go from that body to be free, remember you're not going, you're coming here to me. And I will always love you from that land way up above. We'll be in touch again soon. P.S. God sends His love.
love you always dad xxx
my soulmate
Wow what can i say, if you had met him you would certainly remember him. A shining star brighter than any other,my soulmate.Someone sent me this poem when he died..........
"I'll lend you for a little time
A Child of Mine." he said
"For you to love the while he lives,
And mourn for when he's dead.
It may six or seven years
Or twenty-two or three,
But will you, till I call him back,Take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you,
And should his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories
As solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay,
Since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there
I want this child to learn.
Ive looked this wide world over
In my search for teachers true,
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes,
I have selected you;
Now will you give him all your love,
Nor think the labour vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call
And take him back again?
I fancied that I heard them say,
"Dear Lord. Thy will be done,
For all the joy Thy child shall bring,
For the risk of grief we'll run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness,
We'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known,
Forever grateful stay.
But should the angels call for him
Much sooner than we planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes
And try to understand."
but how can we understand?? you remain in our memories every day, and i see you in your daughters eyes. love always caroline xxxxxxxxxx
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